From Where You Are to Who You're Becoming

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Through PIVOT, Carolyn Moor's 6-month mentoring program at Modern Widows Club®, you don't just process grief — you build the leadership, purpose, and community that come next. See how it works below.

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Work With Me for Six Months

Introducing PIVOT, my signature mentoring program

WHO IS THIS FOR?

Widows ready to move beyond survival into personal leadership, renewed purpose, and a small group community — whether you're early in your healing or years in and finally ready for what's next.

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About the program

PIVOT blends personal mentorship with Carolyn Moor and a small, intentional community of 15-20 women walking the same path, guided by the Hope • Heal • Grow • Lead® framework. This isn't a self-paced course or a massive cohort where you get lost in the crowd; it's a real, six-month relationship with 3 calls a month and in-between connections built to help you pivot from where you are into who you're becoming over an arc of time.

What's included

A pre-program qualifying call to make sure PIVOT is the right fit for where you are right now
Six months of blended 1:1 mentoring and small-group community connection, kept intentionally small at 15-20 women per cohort
Guidance through the full Hope • Heal • Grow • Lead® pathway and 7 Pillars of healthy widowhood
A community of Wisters® (widow sisters) walking the same journey alongside you

Investment

$3,500 for the full 6-month program, or a monthly payment plan is available.

PIVOT is offered in partnership with Modern Widows Club® — a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit, making your investment potentially tax-deductible. Consult your tax advisor for details specific to your situation.

My Commitment to You

Every PIVOT journey starts with a qualifying call, so you never join unsure if it's the right fit. And once you're in, you're one of only 15-20 women in your cohort — which means you have my real attention, not just a seat in a program.

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“I started PIVOT a year and a half into widowhood. I was out of the fog of the first year, but I could feel myself slipping toward the negative, and I didn’t want that path. PIVOT helped me build the resiliency skills I needed to heal and move forward. It taught me that resiliency is a skill we can learn, not just a trait we possess, and that happiness can happen again after loss. Carolyn has a contagious heart for healing, and I know I wouldn’t be as healthy or happy today without Modern Widows Club and PIVOT. I would recommend it to any widow!"

–KATIE S.
“PIVOT gave me the support and resources to find my new self after my husband passed away. Instead of asking ‘What happens now?’ I realized there was a future for me. It taught me to care for myself physically, mentally, and spiritually, and gave me the confidence and clarity to step into a future I didn’t ask for. I encourage every Wister to consider PIVOT. Thank you, Carolyn and MWC!”

–ROSE P.
“In February 2018, I lost my husband of 18 years to lung cancer. After five months of searching for grief support, I found Modern Widows Club online, and my life truly restarted at the Widow Empowerment Event. There I joined PIVOT, a small, intimate group of women walking the same road. PIVOT helped me find healthy ways to grieve, manage my finances, and open my heart to a new relationship. I have since remarried, and I still lean on these skills and the friendships I made. I highly recommend PIVOT to widows at any stage. Life doesn’t have to stop with the death of our loved one."

–KELLI L., BSN RN

Meet your mentor

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I've spent 26 years learning what actually works — not in theory, but in the middle of real life. I raised two daughters as a widow. I built a successful interior design firm.

I built Modern Widows Club® | The Movement for Widow Care® from my living room into a global movement, all while still managing the everyday work of running a home and guarding my own health along the way.

That's where my frameworks come from: not a single credential, but decades of lived, practical experience across the full range of what a woman's life actually holds. Today I'm honored to serve on New York Life Foundation's national Bereavement Support Advisory Council, and to walk alongside widows everywhere who are ready to lead.

Get to know me

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How it works

Step One

Fill out my inquiry form to start the process. This form will place you on the PIVOT waitlist and I’ll be in touch when the next application round opens.

Step Two

Once applications are open, we’ll schedule an initial qualifying call to ensure you’re a good fit for the mentorship program.

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Step Three

Upon acceptance, you’ll pay the program fee in full or via a payment plan, and then receive all of the program details and meeting details.

Step Four

We get to work, meeting regularly throughout the next six months.

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"My heart feels so much lighter. I'm a different person now, I used to have low self esteem, but now, my heart is lighter and my bubbly self is back. Thank you."

–ASHLEY
"When I joined Modern Widows Club, I was sad, confused, and unsure how to navigate widowhood. Today, I feel calmer [and] more at peace."

–SUE R.
“I admire Carolyn Moor so much for her advocacy. I'm starting to 'get it.' It's a gross oversight that our governments give so little support to women in life-changing situations.”

–BETTY C.

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Frequently Asked Questions

That's exactly what the qualifying call is for. If you're past the initial crisis of loss and feel a pull toward something more — leadership, purpose, community — you're likely a good fit. If you're not sure, book the call and we'll figure it out together.
There's no minimum or maximum. Some women join a year or two in, others join a decade or more later, once they're finally ready to move from surviving into personal leadership support. PIVOT meets you where you are.
PIVOT is built around the full Hope • Heal • Grow • Lead® pathway, and 7 Pillars of Healthy Widowhood not just the "Lead" stage. You'll be met wherever you currently are and guided forward at your own pace. It’s beautiful to be in a community that understands this movement forward and pathway thinking.
No. PIVOT is mentorship and community, not clinical therapy. If you're also working with a therapist or counselor, PIVOT can complement that work, but it isn't a replacement for professional mental health care. Many professional therapists see the impact it has on a widows mindset development and women often share these affirmations in our sessions.
Because real mentorship and connection don't happen in a crowd. Keeping the group intentionally small means you're known, not just enrolled — and that the relationships you build actually last beyond the six months. Since 2018, Carolyn has kept these groups small and witnessed extraordinary grief to growth in women’s lives.
PIVOT is offered in partnership with Modern Widows Club®, a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit, so your investment may be tax-deductible. We recommend confirming the specifics with your own tax advisor. Thank you for supporting your movement for widow care.
Many women stay connected through the wider Modern Widows Club® community, ongoing membership, take travel trips together, have annual reunions, or become ambassadors in roles of their own. PIVOT is often a beautiful beginning of limitless possibility and opportunities.

Get in touch

You’re Invited to Apply for PIVOT

The first step to working together is to fill out my inquiry form noting your interest, and we’ll set up your qualifying call to ensure it’s a good fit.